Ever wonder what Sex and The City would have been like if the girls were in college and lived in LA? Probably a lot like my friends and I. THe clubs get replaced by cheap mexican places with strong margaritas and the topic of conversation stays pretty much the same.

I've been making a point of not talking about relationships and guys on here, but that strays far from the inspiration from the name of it so I guess it's time to cave.

I have a question. And it's kind of a big one.

When it did become surprising when guys don't cheat?

You see, I've known quite a few, from the ones who always have, to the ones you never expect would and so it's come to be my assumption that a guy is willing. How horrible is that? It's not even the celebrity scandels that are forming my opinion, but my own experiences.

So when an old friend came back into my life recently I was shocked when he said he has never and could never cheat on his girl. What has society come to that that surprises me?! That's how it should be and yet I literally did not know how to handle the remarks.

I have to say it does give me hope, but still I'm a little in shock and a little sad that it's so surprising to hear.